In the aftermath of a hate-filled anti-Black attack in Buffalo, there are plenty of people saying that could have been someone from their family inside the store that day. Only, they’re not talking about the grandmother who was supposed to see a show that night with her daughter, or the church deacon who took neighbors to the supermarket, or the retired police lieutenant who died trying to protect grocery store shoppers. They’re talking about the shooter. They’re talking about the teenager under the headline “Pure Evil.” That could have been their child. Your child. Someone watching the news r…