DEAR ANNIE: I’ve been involved with the father of my child for 10 years. Leaving out at least nine years of insanity, I fast-forward to today. He has a drug problem and got clean seven months ago. He’s doing well in recovery. We were separated for five years because of his behavior, but after rehab, he came to live with me and our son to try to make things work. It has been okay. He started working recently, and things had been fine. However, I have some deep-seated trust issues because of his lying and infidelity in the past. I looked at his phone while he was sleeping the other night and dis…
