Felix DeJesus had been drinking on Feb. 2, and his gait showed it as he weaved along a sidewalk in Paterson. Around 8:55 that night, police officers approached him outside a bodega on the city’s west side and handcuffed the 41-year-old as he screamed in Spanish, “My arm. My arm. I think you broke my arm.” They placed DeJesus in the backseat of their patrol car and drove off, later dropping him off at a park. And that’s the last time anyone saw him. DeJesus has been missing for three months, 21 days and counting, his loved ones so desperate, they’ve taken to scouring the Passaic River, wonderin…