By Stephanie Apstein Losing is a collection of tiny, individual tragedies. And so far this season, Cincinnati has done a lot of losing. CINCINNATI — For righty Hunter Greene, the hardest part of the Reds’ putrid start to the season was the night last week when he gave up eight runs and got eight outs. For second baseman Jonathan India, it was watching from the dugout, his right hamstring aching, as his team dropped game after game. For shortstop Kyle Farmer, it was the moment, in the midst of 34 at bats without a hit, he found himself standing in the shower, dressed in his cap, uniform and cle…