Dear Anna, I met this female at a bar because I’m friends with her friend. I got her number, and we went to dinner later that weekend. We went back to her place and started furiously making out, during which I was informed that I would not get laid even on the third date unless we were in a relationship. I mentioned something like I might not mind dating her, and she said she hoped I’d say something like that. So at some point later I asked her “Are you gonna be my girl?” and she answered with yes. Second date, (the following week) I cook her dinner at her place. We end up having the sex. Then…