Dear Anna, I’m seeing this guy — nothing official yet but dates and sex regularly. It’s mostly good, but my big complaint is that he never compliments me on my appearance, my personality or any of the effort I put into planning our dates. Not even the sex, which does not make me feel special or desired. When I brought this up to him, he said “compliments can’t be forced,” which made me feel even worse. What’s going on here? — Putting Real Acknowledgment Into Sexy Efforts Dear PRAISE, Oof. What a shitty thing to say to someone you’re dating/banging regularly. So dismissive and unkind. If it’s t…
